The Neurobiology of Temperament

Your child's temperamental reactions aren't about your parenting failure - they're influenced by 700+ genes that create their unique way of experiencing the world. When you understand and work with their neurobiological wiring instead of against it, you build Trust Fund deposits and teach them valuable metacognition about their own patterns.

  Key Research:

  - Over 700 genes may influence how children's brains process experiences

  - 37-53% heritability for temperamental traits across cultures

  - 74% of temperament-related gene sets may be unique to specific traits

  - Genes influence brain pathways involved in learning, memory, and threat assessment

  Reframing Approach:

  - Meltdowns during transitions → brain's prediction system struggling with change

  - Withdrawal at parties → cautious response pattern, not antisocial behavior

  - Sensitivity to sounds → brain noticing details others miss

  - Help children understand their patterns: "Your brain needs quiet time to recharge"